I know that
with the sudden school closures, parents are scrambling to figure out what to
do. Some are worried about how to home educate their kids while others are
trying to figure out what to do with them while they are at work. You are now
an Accidental Homeschooler! Times like this can be confusing, but I want to
encourage you with some tips and resources that can help you during these next
few weeks.
Let me first
introduce myself. My name is Angela Linzay and I am a homeschooling mom of 5
years. I taught in the classroom for 14 years before bringing my 3 kids home
(kinder, 3rd grade, 5th grade). I’ve learned a lot while
homeschooling and made PLENTY of mistakes along the way. I wanted to share with
you some key things that I hope will help you and not overwhelm you.
So take a
DEEP BREATH. Exhale.
Let’s get
started.
First, I
want you to know that YOU.CAN.DO.IT! You CAN!!! You have a community of
believers that are here to help and a God who loves you more than you know.
We’re going to get through this together. I promise!
But I
don’t know how to teach my children. I am NOT a teacher. I don’t know how to do
…..
Let me clear
the air here. It DOESN’T matters what level of education you have, you CAN
homeschool your kiddos! In fact, as parents isn’t that what we’ve been doing
all along? From infancy, we’ve taught our children what things are called, how
things work, how to do certain tasks, how to pronounce and say certain words, and
so on. When new homeschooling moms come to me, their #1 concern is always that
they are NOT teachers and do not have degrees in teaching. Can I tell you
something? I was a classroom teacher for many years, I have a graduate degree
in education, I create teaching resources, and STILL, I know moms who have NONE
of those and RUN CIRCLES AROUND ME in homeschooling their kids. They literally
AMAZE and INSPIRE me. When our kids are sick, do we not find ways to help them,
find remedies, do research, call our friends and ask for advice? What I’m
trying to say is that our love for our kids drives us to just figure it out and
get it done. This situation is no different. In fact, you love your kids more
than your child’s teacher does (most days 😊 ), so you WILL find ways to educate them, even if that means outsourcing
it (hello online learning!).
Tips:
1. Home
educating DOESN’T need to look like “school” at home.
Kids don’t
need to sit properly at a desk all day. In fact, we start our day at a table
but then my kids know that they have options.
They sit on the couch, lay on the rug, they may even do their math
outside on a blanket. Did you know that some schools have moved towards
flexible seating in their classrooms for years now? They understand that
sitting at a desk all day long is just not that comfortable (don’t you agree?).
At home, you have the ULTIMATE flexible seating options!
2. Try to
stick to a consistent routine
Since the
kiddos are used to waking up at a certain time for school, try sticking to a
start time that is close to what they are used to. For us, we start a little
later because my kiddos love to sleep. We read first (my kids wanted to ease
into their school day that way) and then begin our actual schoolwork around
9/9:30am. Whatever your start time is, try to keep it consistent.
3. Be
flexible
Wait. You
just told me to be consistent??!! Let me explain. One of the goals during this
time is that your kids continue learning. Some kids are sent home with packets,
books, and resources for them to work on. You can decide if you want them to do it
in the morning, or if you are a working parent, you can have them work on it
when you get home. I’ve known homeschooling parents who have full-time jobs so
they flip flop their day. They work in the daytime and have their kids do
school in the afternoons/early evenings when they get home. Remember that
everyone’s situation is different. Your school day may look different than
another family’s school day and THAT’S OK! You do YOU!
4.
Working parents
Enlist a
high school/ college student to babysit/tutor.
They are also experiencing school closures as well and may want to make
the extra money while you get the help you need. Ask around for referrals or
for others to keep an ear out for any responsible student who wouldn’t mind
making some extra cash during this time. Then spray them down with Lysol before
they enter your house. 😊
5. Dive
into their interests
Remember
when you said/thought, “I wish we had more time for my kids to try ….” Guess what? You now have the opportunity to
try these things! You have the ability to tailor some of your child’s learning
to their interests, something that traditional schooling doesn’t always have
the capacity to do. Download a piano learning app, take some online art
classes, online cookie decorating classes, learn a new language, do some STEM
projects (Pinterest has TONS!), etc. Let them be kids and go outside and learn
about bugs/nature. This is a fabulous
time for them to take some online enrichment classes that they normally don’t
have time for. They will enjoy learning because they chose it.
6. Take back family time
You know how
you hate that you’ve been Ubering the kids to school, sports, lessons, then
back home for dinner and homework, just to put them to bed to start this
madness all over again? Well, this is your chance to take back your family
time. Redeem it. Take advantage of this well-needed break. Don’t feel like
these next few weeks have to be all academic. In fact, I personally think that
it SHOULDN’T be. Read chapter books to your kids, yes, even the older
ones will love it (mine still do!). Have family movie nights, go on hikes, do
game nights, puzzles, build Legos together, bake, build forts, have dinners
together again. Chances are, your family time together will be just what their
(and your) hearts needed in such a busy world. This is what they will remember.
Even if they do not do as much work during this time, you will never regret
spending family time together. See this as a blessing to SLOW. DOWN.
7. Serve
others
We have a unique opportunity to serve others during this time. That
means a phone call, making cards for those in nursing homes, checking in on
your neighbors, especially the elderly ones, offer to buy and deliver groceries
to the elderly. If you have friends that still need to go into work, offer to
watch their kids one day. Since your kids are normally busy with school and
can’t participate, this is a great time to get them involved in serving and
caring for others. Trust me, that lesson will be FAR more valuable than
any schoolwork that they do. We can be a light in our community and share the
love of Jesus during this time.
All these
tips are great, but my family is so stressed out about all this. I can’t add
another thing on my plate.
Then DON’T!
You DON’T have to home educate during this time at all. WHAT??!!! Yes, it’s
true. Do only what you can do and if it gets too crazy stressful, then just
enjoy each other. It’s only for about 2 weeks (plus Spring Break). Your kids
won’t forget all that they’ve learned. Trust me. Enjoy spending time together
and do fun things (refer to #6)….Legos, forts, puzzles, movie nights, crafts,
painting, baking, etc. Do not create a stressful environment in a time where
people are already acting on their emotions.
When this is all said and done with, it would be an amazing thing for
your kids will look back at the Coronavirus outbreak and have fond memories of
when schools were shut down and they were at home creating memories with you,
NOT a stressful time where being at home was worse than going to school.
Resources:
In a world
where the political divide is heavy, I have seen so much good through this crisis.
Companies have come together to help and serve those who are in need and have
been very generous by providing their resources and services for free.
Below is a list and some descriptions of my favorite resources. I tried to keep it SIMPLE to cover the core subjects. If you'd like a printable version, click here.
I've also put my PAID product here for FREE during this time. Grab it here:
Click here for this resource on Google Drive. It will have all the clickable links to each program.
I hope that
this helps you get through the next few weeks.
You got it! I believe in you.
Remember, WE love our kids the most and will make decisions for them that we feel is best, so we will get through this together!
**********UPDATE**********
So school is out for longer than expected and you need to begin putting some things in place for your own sanity. Here is a FREEBIE that I created for you! It's a simplified version of what I use for my kiddos. This EDITABLE checklist lets kids know what's expected of them and how to order their day. It's actually a life skill!
Since it's EDITABLE, you can tailor it to your needs. Fonts are embedded so just type your text right into the document (it's on PowerPoint). If you don't have PowerPoint, you can just print the page and write on it (or import into Google Slides). That's what I do.
I've added a sample one for you to see. I explain how to use this checklist in my IG stories (Lights Camera Teach). It's saved in my Highlights under Remote Learning.
Please SHARE if you think it will help others you know!
Hope this helps you during this time. Stay healthy!
Grab this FREEBIE here:
Blessings,
Angela
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